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robhansen at 01:10am on 01/03/2018
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Well, a ten-year chapter of my life has come to a close, and a new chapter's beginning. As the Talking Heads sang, "Same as it ever was, same as it ever was." But chapter-ends are fine places to take inventory of one's life, so… so how did I get here, anyway?
In 2003 I was in grad school, still fumbling my way around, trying to figure out what I wanted the rest of my career to be. Then late one night while using a communications service kind of a lot like IRC, I came across a suicidal young man. I stayed up with him until dawn, when I was able to call his university and alert his chaplain to his mental health crisis.
A bystander, Jenn Vesperman, liked the way I'd been able to engage this young man. I had technical skills and could talk to people, and she thought I might be a useful resource for a group called LinuxChix, which aimed to increase the number of women involved in free/open source software development. That didn't work out well — I have a long rant on that which I rarely break out, and now's not the time for it — but I made the acquaintance of a woman named Raven Alder.
Raven's a wonderful friend. I've known her for fifteen years now, and … she's special. Through her, I met a USAF officer named Jesse Kornblum (now retired), and A.J. Morning, and several other interesting characters whom I've mostly lost touch with.
In 2008 after five years in graduate school it all came crashing down. As with most such crashes in life, I got to deal with a ton of crap that wasn't my responsibility but became my mess anyway. Jesse had a frank conversation with me, telling me that in his opinion I was being entirely wasted in academia. It had been a place for me to hide from the world, but hiding from the world wasn't good for anyone in the long term. I had skills, and I needed to re-engage the world and put those skills to use, so … look, come out to the East Coast for a job interview, I know a guy who needs a Python nerd.
That guy was Tim Cague, whom I lost touch with a long time ago. And that's how the chapter of my life which just ended, began.
It all started with saving a college student's life one night.
I guess that's a pretty good way for a chapter to begin, right?
In 2003 I was in grad school, still fumbling my way around, trying to figure out what I wanted the rest of my career to be. Then late one night while using a communications service kind of a lot like IRC, I came across a suicidal young man. I stayed up with him until dawn, when I was able to call his university and alert his chaplain to his mental health crisis.
A bystander, Jenn Vesperman, liked the way I'd been able to engage this young man. I had technical skills and could talk to people, and she thought I might be a useful resource for a group called LinuxChix, which aimed to increase the number of women involved in free/open source software development. That didn't work out well — I have a long rant on that which I rarely break out, and now's not the time for it — but I made the acquaintance of a woman named Raven Alder.
Raven's a wonderful friend. I've known her for fifteen years now, and … she's special. Through her, I met a USAF officer named Jesse Kornblum (now retired), and A.J. Morning, and several other interesting characters whom I've mostly lost touch with.
In 2008 after five years in graduate school it all came crashing down. As with most such crashes in life, I got to deal with a ton of crap that wasn't my responsibility but became my mess anyway. Jesse had a frank conversation with me, telling me that in his opinion I was being entirely wasted in academia. It had been a place for me to hide from the world, but hiding from the world wasn't good for anyone in the long term. I had skills, and I needed to re-engage the world and put those skills to use, so … look, come out to the East Coast for a job interview, I know a guy who needs a Python nerd.
That guy was Tim Cague, whom I lost touch with a long time ago. And that's how the chapter of my life which just ended, began.
It all started with saving a college student's life one night.
I guess that's a pretty good way for a chapter to begin, right?
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